Crafting your origin story: 7 tips.
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Building a product has never been easier. AI tools now allow small teams to prototype, design, and ship software at a pace that once required entire engineering organizations.
When building becomes easier, differentiation shifts elsewhere.
Trust becomes the scarce resource.
Investors, customers, and potential hires want to understand the person behind the company: the experiences that shaped their perspective and why they care about the problem they are solving.
This is their origin story.
The power of an origin story: How founders build trust and connect with their audience.
Many founders still tell their story like a résumé or a Wikipedia page, with dates and facts, but without a clear thread or emotional resonance. To help founders craft stronger narratives, we created the Origin Stories Guidebook, which explores seven elements that consistently make founder stories memorable and credible.
Below is a preview of those elements.
Identify defining moments
Strong founder stories often begin with a moment that changed how someone saw a problem. Sometimes it happens early in life. Sometimes it comes later through work or experience. What matters is the shift in perspective. These defining moments give the story its starting point.
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For Lauryn Menard, founder of GOB, that moment happened during a spin class in New York City. She noticed the disposable earplugs handed out casually at the front desk , a tiny product that represented a much bigger issue around material waste.
“I was at a spin class early morning in New York City, didn’t have [earplugs] on me, and the people at the spin class were like, ‘Oh well, we have this tub of earplugs that you can use.’ I don’t know what it was in that moment, but I had this aha moment of, oh, I use these all the time and those are really bad.”
2. Notice personal transformation
Founder stories become powerful when they show change. Storyteller Matthew Dicks argues that great stories often hinge on a brief “five-second moment” that alters someone in a fundamental way. In founder narratives, these moments mark the shift from observer to builder.
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Ari Tulla is a San Francisco-based, Finnish entrepreneur and the co-founder and CEO of Elo Health, an AI personalization engine delivering the exact nutrients to live better. His mission is directly influenced by his personal story and the health challenges his family faced.
“My passion for helping others optimize and understand their health began when my wife, Anu, had a benign tumor removed from her neck, along with part of her thyroid. Her doctors attributed the tumor to hormonal imbalances and, though the surgery was a step in the right direction, it wasn’t a complete resolution.
We started experimenting with our lifestyle, changing our diet, removing gluten, limiting sugar, and focusing on whole foods. We paid close attention to sleep, exercise, and the signals our bodies were giving us. Over time, these changes dramatically improved how we felt, both physically and mentally. That journey opened my eyes to how powerful nutrition can be and ultimately inspired the idea behind Elo.”
3.Embrace emotional and sensory details
Nikhyl Singhal's vivid childhood memory of dog races in the Midwest serves as a metaphor for career ambition and the importance of always having a goal. These sensory-rich scenes make your story memorable and engaging.
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“As a kid in the Midwest, entertainment was going to the dog tracks. The way that they motivated the dogs was they had these fake rabbits. These tails would go around faster than the dogs, which would then motivate the dogs to go around in circles. What was interesting is the moment that the dogs, if they accidentally touched the rabbit, they would never run again because they were like, "Well, what's next? I've achieved what I was looking for."
So I think this happens a ton, "Well, one day I will be X. I will be that vice president. I will have more money. I will have built something. I will have started a company." But if you don't think about what happens next, you will keep working because you know nothing else to do, but you'll be sadder or you'll find ways to create war when peace is needed.”
-Nikhyl Singhal is VP of Product at Meta. Source Lenny’s podcast.
4. Connect through relatability
A founder story resonates when others recognize something familiar in it. Relatability comes from sharing a real frustration, observation, or question. These stories show how founders create that connection.
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If you work, or used to, in an office, you’ve probably had a moment when you overheard someone gossiping. That’s what happened to Terry O’Connor, the founder of The Brass, a joyful platform that offers a holistic approach to self-discovery, and is breaking down barriers hindering progress, for women in mid- to late-stage career transitions.
“Ten years ago, while walking through my office at a big tech company in Silicon Valley, I overheard someone refer to three older female coworkers as the Golden Girls (a 1985 comedy series about older women). I was one of the three. First, I chuckled because I love a good comedy. But then, insecurity set in. I started to wonder: why three “older” women in the workplace stood out in the first place? Why weren’t there more of us? Were older women being fired or pushed out due to their age? It made me question whether I needed to hide my age to keep thriving in my tech recruiting career and whether other women felt the need to do the same.”
5-Highlight beliefs and values
Ellen Latham's recounting of her father's life lessons illustrates the values that underpin Orange Theory Fitness. Sharing such personal lessons and values offers a glimpse into your guiding principles.
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“What defines my success is what my father told me.
I grew up in Niagara Falls, New York. In our neighborhood. Everyone's lawn was pristine and ours looked like a dirt pet. and that was because we always held the kickball games, the baseball games on our front lawn, on grass, and my father had no problem with that.
My father was a physical education teacher. Local football coach. Everyone knew him. They called them coach when you were in the grocery store. Hey, coach!
He was living his purpose. He said “Whatever you do make sure you're passionate about it, because you're going to spend a lot of time doing it. And the icing on the cake is, if you could feel that you're contributing to other human beings with it.”
Success is defined in different ways for him. He probably never made more than $50,000 a year and he felt he was the most successful man walking the earth.”
-Ellen Latham, Co-Founder, Orangetheory fitness.
6- Demonstrate resilience
Some founder stories are built on persistence long before success appears. These stories show how repeated rejection and uncertainty can become part of the path rather than the end of it.
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Sara Blakely didn’t come from the fashion industry. In her twenties she was selling fax machines door-to-door, saving money and learning how to handle rejection every day. One evening, while getting ready for a party, she cut the feet off a pair of pantyhose to make her white pants look better. That simple experiment became the first prototype of Spanx. With only $5,000 in savings and no background in fashion or manufacturing, she spent years developing the product, calling factories that repeatedly rejected her idea. Eventually she found a manufacturer willing to take a chance, and the product later gained national attention when Oprah Winfrey featured it on television.
7-Use a bit of humor
Using humor and self-deprecation where appropriate can make your origin story more relatable and endearing. Authenticity in storytelling breaks down barriers and fosters a deeper connection with your audience.
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Special mention for the video of Dos Hombres Mezcal, created by American actors Aaron Paul and Bryan Cranston, for the most humorous origin story.
Conclusion: Your story is your brand's heart.
A well-crafted origin story is the soul of your brand. It distinguishes you in a sea of competitors and draws your audience closer, building a foundation of trust and connection. To help you reflect on these 7 principles:
Defining moments
Personal transformation
Resilience
Emotional and sensory details
Relatability
Lessons and values
Humor
At Maison Lafargue, we work with founders to clarify the moments, beliefs, and experiences that make their story resonate with investors, talent, and customers.
If you would like help shaping your founder story, feel free to reach out.